Step 1: Choose the funeral arrangements

Your loved one may have discussed with you just how they want their funeral to be. However, don't worry if your loved one didn't leave any specific wishes or instructions. A good Funeral Director will help take away the stress of planning a funeral, making sure your loved one's send-off is a personal and unique celebration of their life.

One of the first things to decide is whether you want a cremation or burial. This can be a difficult decision, so please reach out for further information if you need to.

Next, choose which type of funeral service you would like. One that matches your loved one's personality and best commemorates their life can often be a good way of selecting, be it a traditional or more contemporary service.

Consider the special touches you may want to add to the funeral service. Flowers, music, poetry, vehicles. It's these little details that can make all the difference.

Step 2: Listen to recommendations

It may be a good idea to sit down with your family and discuss which Funeral Director you feel will be able to best fulfil you and your loved one's wishes. Look at their reviews - what do other people who have used their services say about them?

Things to consider might include them giving you as much time as is necessary to discuss your needs with someone always available on the phone 24 hours a day. Additionally, personal, face to face contact to discuss your individual requirements and take instructions either at their premises or your home.

They should liaise with third parties on your behalf whilst booking and managing the timings of all aspects of the funeral service; including venues, transport and required personnel – to a time and day that suits you

Step 3: Decide a budget with your family

Have a chat with you family about what how much you wish to spend on the funeral. It can be a huge relief knowing that all your relatives are agreed on an amount for funeral costs and came negate the potential for future disagreements which can arise.

It's also a good idea to look at a breakdown of funeral costs. Once you know what elements you want in the funeral, your Funeral Director should be able to provide a breakdown of costs.